The Importance of Friendship in the World of Soccer: Norbert Elgert and Oliver Ruhnert

Union Berlin's sporting director Oliver Ruhnert enters the pitch prior to the German first division Bundesliga football match between Union Berlin and TSG 1899 Hoffenheim in Berlin, Germany, on September 23, 2023. (Photo by Ronny Hartmann / AFP) / DFL REGULATIONS PROHIBIT ANY USE OF PHOTOGRAPHS AS IMAGE SEQUENCES AND/OR QUASI-VIDEO (Photo by RONNY HARTMANN/AFP via Getty Images)
Union Berlin's sporting director Oliver Ruhnert enters the pitch prior to the German first division Bundesliga football match between Union Berlin and TSG 1899 Hoffenheim in Berlin, Germany, on September 23, 2023. (Photo by Ronny Hartmann / AFP) / DFL REGULATIONS PROHIBIT ANY USE OF PHOTOGRAPHS AS IMAGE SEQUENCES AND/OR QUASI-VIDEO (Photo by RONNY HARTMANN/AFP via Getty Images)

In the world of soccer, where fierce rivalries and intense competitions are common, friendship is often seen as a secondary value. However, a recent controversy involving Norbert Elgert, the U-19 coach of Schalke, and Oliver Ruhnert, the sporting director of Union Berlin, reminds us of the importance of personal relationships and integrity in sports.

The two men have had a friendship that has lasted for many years, a bond that extends beyond the boundaries of football clubs. Recently, rumors emerged that Elgert was campaigning to persuade Ruhnert to leave Union Berlin and return to FC Schalke 04. However, what is remarkable in this story is Elgert’s response to these rumors.

Elgert vehemently denied any attempt to persuade his friend to change clubs. He emphasized that his friendship with Ruhnert is something he deeply values, and his commitment is entirely focused on the development of young talents at Schalke. This is an admirable attitude, especially in such a competitive environment as professional soccer.

BERLIN, GERMANY – MAY 13: Oliver Ruhnert, Manager of 1. FC Union Berlin looks on prior to the Bundesliga match between 1. FC Union Berlin and Sport-Club Freiburg at Stadion an der alten Försterei on May 13, 2023 in Berlin, Germany. (Photo by Oliver Hardt/Getty Images)
BERLIN, GERMANY – MAY 13: Oliver Ruhnert, Manager of 1. FC Union Berlin looks on prior to the Bundesliga match between 1. FC Union Berlin and Sport-Club Freiburg at Stadion an der alten Försterei on May 13, 2023 in Berlin, Germany. (Photo by Oliver Hardt/Getty Images)

The story of Norbert Elgert and Oliver Ruhnert reminds us that the world of sports should not be just about wins and losses but also about values like loyalty, respect, and friendship. At a time when the backstage of soccer is often marked by intrigues and personal interests, Elgert’s honesty is a breath of fresh air.

Furthermore, Elgert’s attitude towards the young talents in Schalke’s academy is commendable. He expresses the desire to see his proteges achieve success at the highest level, and this passion for developing young players is a crucial part of the future of the sport.

Despite the rumors circulating, the friendship between Elgert and Ruhnert remains unshaken. It serves as a reminder that in the world of soccer, loyalty and respect can coexist with competitiveness. Perhaps this story will inspire us to value personal relationships in sports even more and recognize that integrity and friendship are qualities to be admired and celebrated, regardless of the final result on the field.